Man you young, got money, got clout etc. Bruh do you, live wild & free, mess around. Fuck worrying about consequences. You only live once. And you in your 20s/30s too! Shit, when I was your age I was acting a fool. Look man listen, buy that car, hook up with that girl, run up that credit cuz money comes & it goes. So what if you may have a kid with several women down the line. At least you pay your child support right ? At least you visit your kids from time ? So what if you may potentially put yourself at a higher risk for catching an STI/STD that may or may not be curable, you stay strapped up & you ain’t gotta worry about catching anything. Don’t settle down, you can wait until you in your 40s/50s when you too old & washed to hang. That girl that’s with you now she gonna always be with you she’ll wait, she will put up with you “living your best life” ignore her constant nagging. Forget trying to get life right currently, you can do that when you’re older. This is your prime take advantage of it.
But hey, you can’t say that I didn’t warn you…the choice is yours!
Naw dawg listen! think about your actions & be cautious. Why risk long term comfort & stability for temporary pleasure. Man if I was your age again, I would have did it differently. I wish I would of married that girl that held me down I had her waiting too long for me to get my shit together and she went off to be happy elsewhere. I wish I would have been there to raise my kids, I wish I was smarter with my money. I wish I was a bit conservative in my sexual activity because now I have an incurable infection. I wish I would have taken it another level in my career. Ain’t you tired of seeing fatherless homes, men with several baby mammas, generational poverty. As tempting as it may be young man, fight to change the narrative.
How many more brothers you gotta see falling until you decide to make a change or to show them a different way. It’s okay if your whip ain’t foreign yet, if your diamonds don’t dance like the next man’s, if you ain’t the center of attention, If you are committed to one woman if you place value on being fully involved & invested in your kids, family and your community. See that right there is real. Some men & some women too may call you “boring” or “too serious” but always stay true to you. This is your prime take advantage of it.
But hey, you can’t say that I didn’t warn you…the choice is yours!
